Couture Weddings

A richly symbolic ceremony with a larger bridal party (that is one that includes more than just one bridesmaid and one groomsman  requires detailed preparation, staging and rehearsal to ensure that the ceremony flows smoothly on the day and that the visual record of the ceremony (both still photographs and videos) whether shot by your professional photographer or captured informally by your guests, is magical.

A couture ceremony involves your guests in the ceremony and builds the emotions from the appearance of the bride to the kiss after the declaration of marriage. Each ceremony is different because each ceremony is custom-created reflect your personalities, your style, your wishes and your circumstances, and includes elements that add richness and meaning.Couture Ceremony
Photograph courtesy of Ange Photography

A couture ceremony can include rituals that offer an opportunity to give visual expression to an important part of the ceremony.

Rituals are symbolic ceremonial elements that incorporate acts highlighting some aspect of your intention for your future. Such rituals may add cultural and or symbolic touches meaningful in the context of your individual or shared heritage and are often referred to as “ceremonies”, as in “ring ceremony”.  As with the rest of the ceremony I  develop each ritual to reflect  it's meaning for you and to ensure it is a fabulous part of your ceremony, an integral part of the whole. I do not use standard wording copied from websites or other celebrants, so the ritual does not include unfortunate stereotyping or make assumptions about what is proper for your relationship.

The exchange of rings is the most common ritual used in marriage ceremonies, but there are many others, using flowers, pebbles, candles, ribbons, wine and other symbols including

  • Bouquet of Love and Support
  • Chalice Ceremony (Wine Cup or Loving Cup)
  • Coin Ceremony
  • Hand Blessing
  • Handfasting
  • Ring Warming
  • Rose Ceremony
  • Sand Ceremony
  • Truce Bell
  • Unity Candle
  • Wishing Stones
  • Unity Candle


Many cultures have symbolic rituals which are a feature of their wedding  ceremonieceremonies. If you have a particular cultural heritage such rituals can be included in your civil ceremony.

The objects used in the ritual can be retained as a keepsake.

A couture ceremony may also include a reading or two of your choice.

While readings are a mechanism by which more people can actively participate in your ceremony and can bring a change of pace, inject the words of an "expert", or express 
many-facetted sentiments and ideas very succinctly (particularly true of poetry),  they can also be used as fillers to save the celebrant the effort of writing. I advise limiting the number and length of readings because they can feel like an interruption to the ceremony. The number of readings should be limited as there is the potential to destroy the personal nature of the ceremony.

Where you want a richly symbolic wedding but have a limited number of guests and only one bridesmaid and one groomsman a Small Couture Ceremony may be suitable. This ceremony has some restrictions on the choice and complexity of rituals and on the processional, but does not require a celebrant-led rehearsal.




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Advanced Diplomas of Marriage, General and Funeral Celebrancy (all with high distinction)
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Jennifer Cram is a secular humanist celebrant

in Brisbane Queensland Australia
Serving all of Brisbane, Redlands, Redcliffe, Pine Rivers, Logan and Ipswich
Ceremonies performed in private homes, parks, gardens, hotels, clubs, restaurants, chapels, function centres, reception centres, wedding venues.
Day or evening ceremonies 365 days a year

Her Celebrant Services include:
Wedding Ceremonies including Contemporary, Traditional, Spiritual, Intimate, Cultural, Inter-cultural, Buddhist, Celtic, Handfasting, Humanist, Irish, Mediaeval, Military, Scottish, Celtic, Chinese, Buddhist, Mediaeval; Surprise, Theme, True-Blue Aussie, Visa, Green, and Pink Weddings;
Renewal of Vows; Commitment Ceremonies for gay, lesbian, and straight couples; Naming Ceremonies; 
House Warming; Launching; Divorce and Separation (End-of-Relationship) Ceremonies

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Phone: (07) 3378 3005
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Mail: P O Box 20, Indooroopilly QLD 4068, Australia


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