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Planning a wedding should be a delightful journey filled with love, creativity, and joy. But, without a well-crafted budget, it can be unbelievably stressful.

As any seasoned planner would tell you, starting with a realistic and complete budget, and keeping a keen eye on it throughout the process, requires a keen eye.

Whether you’re envisioning an extravagant gala or an intimate gathering, understanding the different facets of a wedding budget can help you make informed decisions.

Budget planners available on the net and in wedding planners are, however, often just a list of line items. Net result, they often only include "money to be spent", and ignore other equally influential aspects.

Let's explore the four crucial aspects to consider:

• Fixed Costs
• Variable Costs
• Time Cost
• Opportunity Cost

Fixed Costs: The Foundation of Your Budget

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Fixed costs are the big-ticket items, the must-have expenses, together with those that remain constant, no matter how many guests attend or what changes you may decide on along the way. While each fixed-cost item may be available at various price points, once you have made a decision you are locked in to that expense.

The must-have expenses:

• Fee for the services of the person authorised to solemnise your marriage (celebrant, clergy/church, or registry office
• Cost of the official certificate that is proof that your marriage is registered

The fixed cost expenses, those where you how much you spend depends on what you choose, for example

Establishing realistic costs for your situation requires some preplanning that needs to be done these early because fixed costs

• provide a solid foundation for your budgeting journey
• are the building blocks upon which the rest of your financial plan will stand
• comprise a sizable chunk of your overall spend.

Variable Costs: The Flexible Factor

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Variable costs offer some wiggle room for one simple reason - the number of guests and the size of your wedding party drive how much you need to spend. But they also allow you to make adjustments to your choices, within limits, of course.

For example:

• Catering, there is a cost per guests, but you also have choices as to type of catering and which available package you choice. Most venues, offer several different packages at different price points
• Ceremony styling. 1 person, 1 chair. But you have a choice of types of chairs at different price points. Choice of other styling options, etc
  
• Photography packages. How many hours of coverage.
• Bouquets and boutonnieres. The more people in your wedding party the more these will cost, but you have a choice of types of flowers etc.
  

By keeping a close eye on these expenses, you can adjust your budget as your wedding plans evolve. Remember, a little flexibility can go a long way in ensuring your budget accommodates your dream day.

Time Cost: Priceless Yet Measurable

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On average, apparently, planning a wedding is the equivalent to a second full-time job. So the first question is to ask yourself whether you have that sort of time, and how long can you sustain that level of effort? But couples rarely consider the time cost, almost never set themselves a time budget, and are caught out when they realise that time vs money is a trade off. If you are short of time, or time is short, achieving your dream will cost you extra in hard cash.

DIY projects can save money but often require significant time commitments. Conversely, hiring professionals might incur higher costs but can free up your schedule for other priorities. Balancing time and financial costs ensures that you enjoy the planning process but overspending will just move the stress to after your wedding.

Opportunity Cost: The Hidden Trade-Offs

Opportunity cost is an often-overlooked aspect of wedding budgeting. It involves

• considering what you might have to forgo to afford specific wedding elements
• considering how spending on your wedding may impact your choices in the future

For instance, splurging on a designer dress might mean cutting back on the number of guests, your photography package, your honeymoon plans, or taking longer to save for a deposit or pay off your mortgage.

Evaluating possible trade-offs can help you prioritise what truly matters to you and your partner, ensuring your wedding day aligns with your shared vision and values, and does not compromise your financial viability or choices in the future.

Getting it right

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Balancing these four aspects of your wedding budget allows for a more comprehensive, multi-faceted approach. By staying informed and flexible, you can craft a celebration that's not only beautiful but also financially sound both now and for your future.

PRO TIP 1
Forget the Budget Formula - bridal magazines and websites generally provide a formula about how to divide up your budget – e.g.  50% for reception. That sort-of works for the reception if you've got a large budget but it does not work for a smaller budget.

PRO TIP 2
Stop thinking about how much money you have or "can afford to spend", and start thinking of your wedding budget as $0.00, an amount you want to go over as little as possible.  There is a good reason for this. In wedding budgeting the maximum amount very quickly become the minimum  amount, leading to a budget blow out.

PRO TIP 3

• Prioritise Wisely: Decide what truly matters to you and allocate funds accordingly. A breathtaking venue? Stunning photography? You choose!
• Avoid being blindsided but also Plan for Surprises: Unexpected costs can sneak up on you. Don't take a stab in the dark or rely on what you read. It might not be accurate for your location. Do your homework. Research what things actually cost. Read all contracts carefully. But also build a cushion into your budget for those "oops" moments.
• Stay Realistic: Dreams are beautiful, but reality checks keep you grounded. Ensure your vision aligns with what you can comfortably afford. There is no such thing as a Champagne Wedding on a Beer Budget! And buying into the "You deserve this" trope is a guaranteed recipe for glossing over the future impact of overspending.
• Communicate Clearly: Talk openly with your partner, family, and vendors. Clear communication can prevent misunderstandings and last-minute stress.
  

Thanks for reading!